Showing posts with label Personal musings. Show all posts
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Friday, January 30, 2026

My Top 7 nonfiction books read in 2025

I recently wrote and posted my full reading list for 2025. It was a lean year for me in terms of reading books, but I did manage to read some good books. In the next few weeks I will be writing out and posting my lists of top books I read in various categories. Let's start this week with my top seven in nonfiction. As I mentioned in my reading list, I read 37 nonfiction books, and today I am picking out my top seven. These are books that I rated 4 or 5 stars out of 5 stars, and they are books that stayed with me. This list is in no particular order. Links to my reviews are included. 

 

White Poverty

 

As I wrote in my review: The book "affirms something I believe strongly: if only we could unite against the oligarchs and robber barons, truly unite, we could truly change things." This book also made my list of "recent reads that I rated 5 stars" I wrote back in July of 2025, so even back then I knew this book would be one of my top books for the year. 

 

 

Bad Law


 This is a book I really liked and one that is necessary in the Hard Times we live in. 

 

The Internet Con

 

From my review: "In this small book, the author explains how major Internet companies became the monopolistic behemoths they are now. He also explains how these large companies manage to hold us hostage, making us stay with them even as we hate them and perhaps hate ourselves for staying." Doctorow then goes on to provide advice on how take back control. 

 

This Book is Yours and Free to Keep


 As I wrote in my review: This book is "a powerful document of the human spirit. It is also an important book about the [Appalachian] region and the impact of the prison industrial complex in the region."

 

Why I Love Horror


 From my review: "If you are a horror fan, this is a must-read book. If you are curious about horror, this is a good book to learn about the genre and what motivates some of its current writers to keep on writing it. The book is truly a great sampling of modern voices in contemporary horror." 

 

Burned by Billionaires

 

From my review: "If you want to learn more about how billionaires got where they are now, how they stay there, and what they do to keep their dynasties going, then you need to read this book." 

 

Hekate: Goddess of Witches


 As I note in my review: "If you feel the goddess may be calling you, if you are curious and interested, this can be a book for you." I will add this is a book that has stayed with me. 

 

And this is my nonfiction list. Have you read any of these? Do you have any top nonfiction works you recommend? What are you currently reading in nonfiction? Feel free to leave a comment and let me know. Next week I will be looking at the fiction I read in 2025. 

 

 

 

Friday, January 23, 2026

Reading List for 2025

Welcome to my end of year report and 2025 reading list. Before we get to the book list let me write down some end of year thoughts. 

2025 was a seriously hard year. It made 2024 look like a walk in the park, and 2024 was bad. Even before I did the tally of books read for the year, I already knew I read a lot less than previous years. In the big picture, the Pendejo In Chief and his Party of Stupid regime have been terrible for the United States to the point the rest of the world is basically staying away from this country. Closer to home, some stress from work and changes in the workplace. Last summer we also had to travel out of state for a funeral. Overall there is a constant tense energy in the air. Best I can do is take it a day at a time and make sure I do my best to care for myself and those close to me.  

On social media, these days my two primary places are Bluesky, which during 2025 starting taking some serious turns towards enshittification, and Mastodon; I am on the mas.to server, but you can connect with me there if you are on any of the many Mastodon servers. I am keeping my eye out for other social media options in part in case I need to leave Bluesky and in part because I do like trying out new sites. 

I still keep my presence on Facebook, mainly due to my library's FB page which I help maintain. I know my superiors are leaning to deleting it, but they also still use it for announcements and outreach, and despite low stats, anecdotally I know students still in FB do see our stuff. For now, I am hanging in there and only logging into Facebook when necessary. 

I do have a LinkedIn I have not used in years, but I am afraid I may need to start using it, in part because our college has gone all in on LinkedIn and their learning modules, so I may need to get more active on it in part to access the learning modules and show students how to use them. So far, I have not needed it. We'll see how that may go. 

Overall, I am keeping my social media relatively minimal, mainly Bluesky and Mastodon. Reminder you can always find me here on the blog, at least for now. 

On blogging, this blog remains my primary blog and site.Here you can find book reviews, cartomancy reviews, some book and reading related content, and a few miscellaneous posts. If interested, I usually post here on Fridays, but I may post other days as needed. 

My professional blog, Notes from a Simple Librarian, remains open, but I am not worrying about it much. I may do a post here or there if I find something in librarianship I want to write about or make a note on some LIS reading I may have done, but otherwise it's mostly dormant at this point. While I do continue reading the LIS literature, I don't always have the time to make notes and post them on the blog. I am not reading as much in the LIS literature as I could be reading, but it is what it is. I am doing the best I can in terms of keeping up with the profession. Overall, I've made peace with that. 

My second blogging focus is on Alchemical Thoughts, my cartomancy and commonplace book blog. I continue to enjoy writing about parts of my cartomancy and magic craft journey on the blog. Despite the clusterfuck that was 2025, I still managed to do some writing over there on my cartomancy and magical craft, doing and posting spreads, and other writing and commonplace notes. If interested, I tend to post to this blog on Wednesdays, other days as needed. 

On things I've mentioned previously: 

  • My politics/social issues/activist stuff moratorium has softened quite a bit. Given the Hard Times, I feel I cannot completely tune out politics/social issues/activist stuff. I still try to keep tuning into that to a minimum, but I cannot completely tune it out. One way for me to do my part is to keep learning and educating myself, so I am reading more books in those areas. 
  • My boycott against the publishers that sued Internet Archive, their imprints, and any other defending those publishers continues strong. I do not foresee ending it any time soon, and while I know I am only one librarian and reader, I am making my displeasure known. On a positive, as I mentioned last year, is that I have discovered many new to me independent publishers putting out some very nice work I want to read. I still have the intention of writing a bit more on how this boycott has worked for me. We'll see if I find the time. 
  • A reminder: Want to see what movies and media I watched? Click on the blog tag for "Film and television."  I do brief reviews of movies and media I watch, mostly movies that are new to me, i.e. not brand new (think back list).  

As one year ends and a new one begins, I am grateful to my four readers who support me and keep coming back to read what I write and/or share it with others. Thank you, and I hope you keep coming back. If you can, feel free to bring a friend or two.  

 

So here is the 2025 list. If you see a book title with an asterisk (*), that is a book I reread. If I have written a review for a book, it is on this blog. 

 
January: 
 
  • Graham McNeill, The Iron Warriors Omnibus (Warhammer 40,000).
  • Elaine C. Kamarck, Lies that kill

 

February: 

  • Peter Mohrbacher, Angelarium: Oracle of Emanations (kit with card deck and book).

 

March: 

  • William J. Barber II, White Poverty.
  • Leiji Matsumoto, Captain Harlock the Classic Collection, Volume 3
  • Jackson Lanzig, Star Trek: Day of Blood.
  • Simon Spurrier, Star Wars: Doctor Aphra, Volume 6: Unspeakable Rebel Superweapon.
  • Kieron Guillen, Star Wars, Volume 7: The Ashes of Jedha.
  • Michele Santamaria and Nicole Pfannenstiel, Information Literacy and Social Media.
  • Barbara Moore, Tarot Spreads
  • Pamela Chen and Ashley Cassaday, Steampunk Faerie Tarot (kit with card deck and book).
  • Alana Fairchild, Crystal Mandala Oracle (kit with card deck and book). 
  • Charlie Claire Burgess, Radical Tarot.

 

April: 

  • Bill J. Leonard, Appalachian Mountain Christianity.
  • Amanda Conner and Jimmy Palmiotti, Harley's Little Black Book
  • Lawrence R. Samuel, Literacy in America
  • Minerva Siegel, Tarot for Self-Care
  • Mark Ryan, et.al., The Wildwood Tarot (kit with card deck and book).
  • Archie Goodwin, et.al., Eerie Archives, Volume 3
  • S.A. Barnes, Ghost Station

 

May: 

  • Various authors, Honour Imperialis (Warhammer 40,000). 
  • Aaron Sigmond, Cigars: a Biography.

 

June: 

  • Marcus Katz and Tali Goodwin, Easy Lenormand (kit with card deck and book).
  • Colette Baron-Reid, The Enchanted Map Oracle (blue edition. Kit with card deck and book).
  • Elie Mystal, Bad Law
  • Dan Abnett, Prospero Burns (Horus Heresy, Book 15). 
  • Christian Blauvelt, Be More Vader
  • Cassandra Snow, ed., Tarot in Other Words
  • Darkness Prevails with Carman Carrion, Appalachian Folklore Unveiled

 

July: 

  • Cory Doctorow, The Internet Con.
  • Alec Macgillis, Fulfillment

 

August: 

  • Samantha Rose Hicks, Talking with the Tarot
  • Jim Davis, Garfield Fat Cat 3-pack, Volume 14.*
  • Connie Banta, et.al., This Book is Free and Yours to Keep
  • Shaun Bythell, The Diary of a Bookseller.
  • Randy Crutcher, Cosmic Cat Wisdom Cards (kit with card deck and book).
  • Paul Kepple, Housewives Tarot (kit with card deck and book).
  • Tom Gauld, Department of Mind-Blowing Theories

 

September: 

  • Jack Chanek, Tarot for the Magically Inclined

 

October: 

  • John O'Conner, The Secret History of Bigfoot
  • Mara Einstein, Hoodwinked
  • Becky Siegel Spratford, ed., Why I Love Horror

 

November:  

  • Garry J. Shaw, Cryptic
  • Laura and Sandra Caputo, Otherworld Oracle (kit with card deck and book). 
  • Chuck Collins, Burned by Billionaires
  • Adam Szetela, This Book is Dangerous! 
  • Bill Parente, et.al., Eerie Archives, Volume 4

 

December: 

  • Pietro Alligo, Joker Tarot (kit with card deck and book). 
  • Courtney Weber, Hekate: Goddess of Witches
  • Stephen Starring Grant, Mailman.  

 

 
Number of books read in 2025: 50, including 1 re-read.  
 
 
Number of books read in 2024: 83, including one re-read (the 2024 list).
Number of books read in 2023: 80, including 3 re-reads (the 2023 list). 
Number of books read in 2022:  82, including 5 re-reads (the 2022 list).
Number of books reading in 2021: 69, including 3 re-reads (the 2021 list).
Number of books read in 2020: 80, including 5 re-reads (the 2020 list).
Number of books read in 2019: 72   (the 2019 list).
Number of books read in 2018: 74, including 2 re-reads (the 2018 list).

Annual reading report elements: 
 
Numbers: 
 
Re-reads: 1, the Garfield book, which was a comfort read. 
 
Best reading month: March with 10 books. 
Worst reading month:  A tie between February and September with 1 book each. September makes sense as it is very busy season in an academic library. February was just not that good last year. and it is also somewhat busy time at work. 
 
Books read in print: 37
E-books reading (includes galleys): 13
Read in audio: 0. 
 
I prefer print, and that preference remained strong in 2025.  
 
Graphic novels (includes comics): 8
Manga: 1
 
I usually read a few more graphic novels, comics, and/or manga, so that is another small sign of how bad 2025 was for the reading mood.  
 
Fiction (not including manga nor graphic novels): 4
Nonfiction:  37
 
I am more a nonfiction reader than fiction, and this year is no exception. For me, I can pick up nonfiction a bit easier because it feels like I can drop it and pick it up again easier if I get interrupted. Fiction tends to require more concentration to follow a plot. However, fiction tends to work better for me when I need some serious escapism. At least two of the fiction books I read were omnibus editions that contain more than one novel, so technically if I had picked up the individual works, my fiction number could've been higher, but that is a small detail. Lately, I've been trying to read short stories to see if I can get into fiction a bit more. So far, not too successful as I pick up a short fiction collection, read a story or two, then can't seem to get back to it. It feels like a symptom of the malaise of the Hard Times. However, I am not ready to give up yet. One bit of fiction I do enjoy is Warhammer 40,000; I tend to stick with those, so there is that. I will just keep trying other fiction a bit at a time. As for nonfiction, I have plenty of choices to read. 
 
Library books: 
 
  • Berea branch, Madison County Public Library:1
  • Eastside branch, Lexington Public Library: 11
  • Hutchins Library, Berea College: 12
    • Interlibrary Loan: 0.  
The Lexington Public Library tends to have a larger selection of comics and graphic novels. However, their key feature for me is that they offer unlimited renewals. As long as no one else recalls a book or puts it on hold, I can keep renewing it. As a slow reader I find that feature very helpful. Madison County Public Library needs to get with the program; they still restrict loans to two renewals. For me, even though it is a bit of a drive, it is easier to make the trip to the Eastside branch once a month or so while I also go do the monthly Costco run. I can just stock up on a few books out of Eastside which can last me for a while and not worry about having to rush them back. In addition, in 2025 I started making more of an effort to read some of the books my library gets. Those are more academic, so I balance those with what I borrow from the public library. In addition, reading books from my library allows me to get a better sense of what is coming into the collection, and once in a while it is useful for research consultations when I can recommend to a student a book on their research topic that I have actually read. 
 
In terms of e-book options, I have access to Madison County Public and Lexington Public holdings through Libby. In addition, Madison County Public also has Hoopla. However, I have not felt a need to use Libby nor Hoopla as much given I can find plenty to read in print. So most of my e-book reading is either galleys or a book or two I may own. 
 
Books I own: see my list of reading challenges for 2025. I read 24 books I own last year, which is pretty darn good for me.  
 
Books borrowed from anyone (not family) or recommended by others: 0.
 
Other numbers of interest to me:
 
  • Erotica: 0. The Hard Times are just awful when it comes to reading erotica. I may have read a short fiction piece here or there, but nothing worth mentioning. As I wrote at the start of 2025, I have a feeling 2026 will not be better in terms of improving the mood to read erotica. Having said that, an observation, it seems some erotica writing has declined, at least the publishing of anthologies and collections. I am sure plenty of it is being written in forums, Literotica, and similar places but I am just not seeing actual more traditional publications in erotica as I used to see a few years ago. I may out of curiosity look into that, but it is not a priority at this moment. 
  • LIS and reference: 3. One of them is an LIS book. The other two are not technically LIS, but their topics are relevant to the field, so they get included here. 
  • Tarot and Oracle (includes deck companion books): 16. 
  • Other esoterica/pagan/spirituality: 1.
  • Netgalley: 2. Netgalley this year implemented Thorium and the associated DRM that goes with it. I tried it out, and to put it charitably, it is a pain in the ass to use. It's so bad I have decided I am no longer requesting anything new out of Netgalley. I will post reviews for some older items, that I may have a copy via a library, but otherwise Netgalley is pretty much dead to me. 
  • Edelweiss Plus: 8. This has become the reliable way to get e-book galleys for review. Their system, Adobe, works. I am not a fan of Adobe's DRM, but compared to the clusterfuck that is Netgalley's new system, it works. I pray to the Cosmic Joker Edelweiss does not follow Netgalley's way because at that point they'll be dead to me too. While I enjoy reading newer works as ARCs, it is not an essential thing for me, and I have plenty of books I can borrow to keep reading and doing reviews.   
    • On a side note, EBSCO, one of the big library database vendors, just went with Thorium for their e-book DRM. I usually don't read e-books from my library because they are on EBSCO, J-Stor, or some academic publisher, and they are all a pain in the ass to download and read when compared to the ease of using Libby. My electronic resources librarian tells me that very few patrons actually download a full e-book from our holdings. Mostly our patrons may download a chapter here or there for research, but no one is really reading whole e-books from our collection. But that is another story for another day. 
  • Other books offered for review, i.e. not Netgalley nor Edelweiss Plus. These books come from a publisher, author, editor, etc. that offered me a book or that I requested. Once in a while a book comes in unsolicited, so I may be on someone's list, which is fine: 1, and it was a duplicate since I got it via Edelweiss Plus for review. Happens sometimes.  
  • Books in Spanish: 0. This was not even on my radar in 2025; that's how bad the year was. 
  • True crime: 0. This was not on the radar much either. In addition, it seems a good amount of books in this genre are published by publishers on my boycott plan, so they tend to be a bit harder to find for me. 
  • Food and drink: 0. Also not on the radar. 
  • Poetry: 0. Not even a priority at this point, and to be honest, not sure if I will pick up any poetry in 2026.
  • Appalachian and regional: 3. I am adding this category this year. This is not an area that is within my reading profile, but I do make a small effort to read a bit in this area given my place of work and our student population. Three for the year is pretty good. 
  • Books that broke the politics/social issues/activist moratorium: 10. As I mentioned above, the moratorium is softening, and I am gradually stepping away from it. In the Hard Times, I do need to be informed, and I need to be able to share what I learn with others.   

 

This time last year I was reading the following books. Links go to the reviews: 

  • William J. Barber II with Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove, White Poverty. (As you can see, I started the year breaking moratorium here).
  • Various authors, Honour Imperialis (Warhammer 40,000. This is an omnibus edition of three novels by different authors plus a few short stories). 
  • Xueting Christine Ni, ed., Sinophagia: a Celebration of Chinese Horror. I ended up dropping this one, but I am still keeping it in the TBR list to try again later. 
  • Amanda Conner and Jimmy Palmiotti, Harley's Little Black Book
  • Barbara Moore, Tarot Spreads
 
As we start 2026, I am reading the following books: 
 
  • Ellen Datlow, ed., Christmas and Other Horrors: a Winter Solstice Anthology.
  • Danie Ware, The Rose at War (Warhammer 40,000. An omnibus with some short stories and novellas featuring the Adepta Sororitas). 
  • Hu Anyan, I Deliver Parcels in Beijing
  • Soma Chaudhuri and Jane Ward, eds., The Witch Studies Reader.  
  • Donald Tyson, Alhazred: Author of the Necronomicon. This is a carry over from last year, and I hope I can finish it in 2026.  
 
Finally to wrap up, here are a few bloggers I have found who do end of year reading lists and surveys: 
 
 

As I have mentioned before, finding other bloggers doing this is challenging given there are few active blogs out there that provide good writing consistently. It seems every year one or two blogs I follow go extinct. As for me, I will keep on blogging as long as I can. 

If you made it this far, thank you for reading and stopping by. I wish you all a safe, happy, and prosperous 2026, and may you find many good books to read. 

 
 
 
 


Thursday, December 18, 2025

Random holidays season thoughts, or hey, cash for the holidays is fine

A couple of men doing some Christmas shopping. Photo, if I recall, comes from LoC.

 

 

I saw this article from the AP on my feeds, "What Americans think about giving cash as holiday gifts, according to a new AP-NORC poll," and it caught my attention. This is the sort of article I usually do a quick share on my social media with the link and maybe a snarky comment or two, but this one gave me a moment or to think a bit about what I think about some of the questions in the poll. Keep in mind, these are my random thoughts, and I am sure a few retailers and business people may not be too happy because I don't always follow what is conventional. So let's look at some of the findings from their poll. Quotes are from the article. 

" About 6 in 10 Americans say cash or gift cards are 'very' acceptable as holiday presents, but they’re much less likely to say that about a gift that was purchased secondhand or re-gifted. . . "

I am perfectly fine if I get the cash and/or a gift card for the holidays. In terms of gift cards, prepaid cards like VISA would be preferable to specific store cards because I could use them in various places including online shopping. In my case, I often buy cartomancy decks and other witchy woo stuff online, so a money gift card is helpful for that. When I get one of those cards for the holidays, I usually save them to use later in the year when some of the retailers have sales. Hey, you need to be prudent in your shopping and save a penny where you can. 

Another favorite gift card option for me is a card for Half Price Books, where I can always find something I want. 

Cash is certainly welcome and a good option. I do remember growing up that at times folks giving cash for a holiday present, or any present, were viewed as lazy or leaving it to the last minute. I am sure some of those folks were a little lazy or just left it to the last minute. But let us be honest, the flexibility of cash is a good thing. I would rather buy something I want and/or need with money from a gift than getting a gift I do not want nor need, and it taking up space until I can get rid of it.  According to the article, young people, which they define as under 45, do say cash is a very acceptable gift. In the end, in the Bad Economy, cash is still king. 

As for something secondhand or regifted, I suppose it depends on what the item is and in what condition it is in. I buy things used for myself often, including cartomancy decks (hey, a good cleansing, and you're good to go). Would I give as a gift something secondhand? It depends on what the item is and the condition. If it is something I think or know they would appreciate, and it is good condition, yes, I would. Would I regift something?  Yes, I probably would as long as I make sure there is no way the source of the original gift could find out, just to be safe. 

 

"It’s not just your pesky neighbors who leave their holiday decorations up into January. About one-third of U.S. adults say they’ll leave them up after New Year’s Day."

I am Puerto Rican, and the Better Half appreciates that including the fact we DO leave the holiday decorations well into January, sometimes close to February even. You see, where I come from we have a very long holiday season that also includes Three Kings Day (January 6th) and las octavitas after that. SO you bet we leave the tree up and decorations after New Year's Day. Plus, let's be honest, you go through all the work to put up a tree and decorate your home. You should take some time to really enjoy the results of your holiday labors instead of rushing out to bring it all down on January 1st, in my humble opinion.  

 

"About one-quarter of U.S. adults say they’re planning to watch sports on Christmas Day, while only 5% will head for a movie theater." 

We do not watch nor really care for sportsball at home anytime of the year and certainly not on Christmas. We do not do the movie theater thing either. Christmas we stay home, relax, spend time with family, enjoy some good food. But hey, do what makes you happy for the holiday. 

 

"About 3 in 10 U.S. adults say they will give a gift to their pet this year." 

In recent years, yes, we do have a stocking for our cats with treats and small toys, and once in a while they may get a larger gift as needed. It is a cute thing to do, and usually it does not cost very much. After all, they are part of the family.

And finally, 

". . .44% of Americans who say they won’t stay up to greet 2026, according to the poll." 

I will be honest, the appeal of staying up until midnight during new year's eve does wear off a bit as you get older. As a kid I thought it was great and fun. Now, it is a nice thing to do with your loved one, assuming she is not working, but we are pretty easy going about it. Often we will take a nap earlier in the day so we can be ready for midnight with a little bubbly. We do not do any specific rituals like eating grapes or tossing water out the door, though I try to do a cartomancy spread for the year ahead which I share over at Alchemical Thoughts. So feel free to stay tuned and check what the cards hold for the upcoming year. 

And there you have it, a few random thoughts about the holidays season based on some poll. 

How about you folks? Any of these traditions or activities things you do or do not do? Or maybe you add a spin? Feel free to leave comments and let me know. ,

Happy holidays. 

 

 

Saturday, December 13, 2025

Holiday Post 2025: Gifts, strange things, and other shopping

Greetings and welcome to the second installment in my holiday posts series for 2025. In case you missed it, here is the first post in the series looking at holiday traditions, manners, and miscellany.

Today I am looking at gifts, strange things, and other shopping. This year seems to be marked by many people stating up front that they will spend less for the holidays and/or are making efforts to keep expenses and gifts at a modest scale. This is not the first year that people make such statements; you hear some of it every year, but this year the situation seems a bit more urgent, and folks sound a bit more insistent about it. I can add that we are doing our best to keep holiday expenses as low as possible and trying to keep the gifts modest. My one indulgence has been some cartomancy decks, and I saved money throughout the year to get them. One thing I can say is we are not using credit or any other pay later scheme to pay for the holidays. If we do not have the money for it, we can do without just fine. In the end, I hope folks out there take it easy. Don't feel pressured to shop just because the big stores and businesses urge you to do so. Do what you can with what you have, and in the end, remember it is more about the thought and the quality of time with those in your close circle. 

 

Tips and advice for holiday shopping 


  • As I mentioned, many people this holiday season are trying to make do with less. The Bad Economy is hitting some folks hard. Here is a small sample of such stories: 
    • Two out of Five Americans plan to spend less for the holiday season, via The Independent. For some, this means no gifts at all. This is not good news for ordinary folks, and it certainly is not the kind of news retailers want to hear at this time of year. The article draws on some survey data and a look at key issues in the U.S. such as the still expensive groceries and the Pendejo In Chief's tariffs. 
    • NPR also mentions that Americans are planning to make do with less this holiday season. People who have what may be considered regular and stable jobs are still having to take on second jobs and even going to food pantries to make ends meet in the Bad Economy. That is not all, so read the article for more details. 
    • Our Canadian neighbors up north are also planning to cut back. The Toronto Sun reports on a survey stating one-third of Canadians plan to spend less for the holidays. How grim are things? For example, the article reports that "the poll shows 60% of Canadians are redirecting savings to essentials like groceries. . . ". What can I say? People need to eat. The CBC also reported on what people are doing to keep expenses down for the holidays. According to the CBC, people say they are cutting down their shopping lists, limiting gifts to just the children, and thrifting. 
    • Even back in Puerto Rico, where people do their best to go big during the holiday, 7 out of 10 Puerto Ricans report they are cutting back for the holiday season according to a local survey.Story via the San Juan Daily Star
  • For some folks, anxiety with giving and/or receiving gifts is an issue. Via OM Times, here is some advice to help you cope and overcome that anxiety and discomfort. One bit of advice that resonated for me: "What is the best present you can give or receive? Many would say it is the other person’s presence and willingness to listen to them without judgment or interruption." 

 

General gift ideas

  

This is where I look at some general lists that have a bit of this and a bit of that. Mostly I am looking for items I may find interesting or amusing. 

  • Rolling Stone has their list of "best Christmas list."  I am always skeptical when someone claims they got the best list of whatever, so let's take a look at this list. They state their list goes from affordable stocking stuffers to luxury items.
    • Coming in at $30 is a 10 ounce Yeti tumbler. Given the recent craze of Stanley Cups and other similar beverage containers, does anyone really need another insulated cup? However, the detail to keep in mind with this tumbler is that its "double-walled insulation keeps wine at the right temperature." We all know how important it is to keep that wine at the right temperature. 
    • At $25 they got a Leuchtturm1917 Notebook. Let me be honest. As an amateur writer and journaling enthusiast, I may use a nice notebook, but I certainly do not pay $25 for one. Only time I have paid more was for a handcrafted journal notebook from a local artist who works in leather and upcycled materials. Those are notebooks and notebook covers to cherish, plus you buy local. 
    • At the $100 range they got a Google Nest Audio, one of those home smart devices that I will never have in my home as long as I live. However, if being spied on by Google is your thing, oh well. 
    • $58 gets you a cast iron pigeon, which I honestly have no idea why anyone would want one, but here we are. 
    • If you want to splurge for someone they suggest a LEGO set to build a Porsche 911 model at $169 or so.  I like LEGO, but that is definitely out of my price range.
  • When I first saw this headline, I wondered why anyone wanted a hamper. Turns out across the pond the hamper refers to a basket, kind of like what I might call a picnic basket. Anyhow, The Telegraph (UK) has their list of best Christmas hampers if you are interested.  The newspaper reviewed a bunch of different baskets from various companies to help you decide which to get or not. Note these can be a bit on the pricey side. I'd say you may be better off making your own hamper or basket as a gift to someone. This leads me to the next article.
  • In the Bad Economy, Teen Vogue offers the idea of "preloved baskets." These are gift baskets you make with items you got second hand and/or from thrift stores.  If you have someone in your life who is into some fandom, you can make the basket with items related to their fandom. With some patience, creativity, and perseverance, you can make this work for anyone and stay in budget. To be honest, I like this idea better than the Telegraph's list. 
  • Need something for those stockings? Vice has a list of holiday snacks for the stockings. From the list, the Legally Addictive snacks were new to me. 

 

Specific niche gifts 


These are lists of gifts for specific groups and people. I am not listing them in any particular order. 

  • For gaming enthusiasts and movie lovers, The Verge has a list of 36 items. Note this article also has links to some of their other niche lists. Prices range from under $20 to about $400. 
    • The LEGO Gameboy model also made the Rolling Stone "best" list above.
  • For men, Art of Manliness has a list of 15 items. This annual list tends to be traditional male gifts, some of them a bit old school, but I think the right guy would appreciate some of these. It has a blend of some basics, some practical things, and a classic or two. For example, it features a pocket knife, which is a very classic gift for a man, although at $200 for the one they feature, that is a serious investment in a pocket knife. I had pocket knives when I was young, especially when I was in the Boy Scouts, but as an adult I've never felt the need to have one, or at least a very high end one. I do have a multi-purpose knife and tool I carry in my backpack. 
  • For the toy enthusiast, and I do not mean children unless we mean children of all ages. Comics Beat has a list for them in 2025. Once again, LEGO sets are popular in a list; this one features a LEGO gumball machine model that runs about $180. 
  • For the comics lover, Comics Beat also has a list.  An issue with the list is they have their writers mention titles with brief descriptions, but there are no links for purchase or where to find the items, so you'll need to do a bit more searching on your own to find some of the books listed. Having said that, there are some interesting titles here, and you might discover a new to you book to read. 
  • For the internet and online activist, the Electronic Frontier Foundation (EFF) has a small holiday list of items you can buy that look cool and you can help support EFF. From their list I do like their gaming dice.
  • For the fancy traveler, Quartz looks at 9 best Christmas destinations according to the Michelin Guide. If you have time and some money to burn, maybe you want to visit one of these places. The list does feature some nice places.
  • For the book lover and reader:  
    • Smart Bitches, Trashy Books has their annual holiday gift guide. It features gifts like mugs and jewelry. I thought the library card coasters were a nice idea.
    • This just caught my eye, via Literary Hub, an estate sale in Philadelphia where they are selling thousands of books. If you were curious, like antiquarian books, or just want to see what the deceased collected, this would have been interesting. 
    • Book Page has a list of 5 literary gift books.  From their list I am intrigued by the book Everyday I Read.
    • Libros 787 has a list of 10 perfect books for Christmas (Spanish language).  From the list, I have the first book on the  list, the new at this time history of Puerto Rico, on my TBR list. Also from the list I read The Puerto Rican War graphic novel (link to my review). 
  • For the stoner and cannabis enthusiast, if you are in Michigan, the Detroit Metro Times has some gift ideas.  
  • For writers: 
    • Especially memoir and essay writers, Open Secrets Magazine offers a gift guide. It features books, workshops you could sign up to do, and other things.  
    • Literary Hub has a gift guide for writers.  Tea scented erasers are an item on the list, and I am not too sure about those. A lot of these items overall I definitely view as highly optional and probably a bit on the pretentious side.
  • The Washington Blade offers an ultimate guide to queer gift giving.  Claiming it is "ultimate" does set the expectations fairly high. I have to admit the vulva candles can claim an ultimate gift level. The candle is one of those that burn from underneath, so they can keep the shape as they melt down. That aside, the list combines some cute items with some luxury ones.
  • You may want to consider buying your gifts from Black-owned brands. Story via The Root.
  • Rolling Stone has a list of best gifts for wives that prove the husband (or spouse) is listening. It must be wives who like expensive things because if I got some or any of these for the Better Half, she would know for sure I was NOT listening when she said to keep it simple and modest.
  • Rolling Stone also has a list for the husbands. Most of the stuff is fairly stereotypical male guy stuff.      

 

Alcohol and spirits

  

A small sampling of the liquor and alcohol lists for gifts this year. I always remember back in younger days my dad, who was an industrial salesman, often received bottles of liquor as gifts from his vendors and clients. And they were usually very nice, albeit modestly priced bottles. My dad drank, but moderately so, so he got more booze than he knew what to do with it, so he drank some and regifted the rest as best he could.  

  • Maxim has a tequila lover's gift guide Most of these are a bit pricey, but the Dizzy Donkey, love the name by the way, comes in at $30 for the blanco. Just for the name I am curious to go look for it. 
  • Maxim also has a list of best rye whiskies for the year.  I do enjoy a good rye whiskey now and then, but these may be a bit out of my price range, but if you can afford it, have at it. 
  • The Spirits Business has their top 10 Christmas gift ideas.  The rum gift set by Drop Works sounds interesting. 

 

 

 Tarot and other cartomancy and esoteric


  • Collective World has a nice idea: what gift to give yourself this holiday based on your zodiac and Tarot. List is not so much material things but more things that may help your personal development and growth.
  • Pagan Grimoire has a list of 40 witchy gifts for men. This caught my eye in part because one does not see too many things for men in the pagan and witchy scene. It is what it is, but as I said, it caught my eye. Naturally the items, some at least, do have the necessary manly man aesthetic, whatever that means. Anyhow, for the pagan dude in your life some of these could be an option. There are some interesting items overall. I liked this list.  
    • From the list, I am intrigued by the back flow incense burner, the first item on the list, but I get the impression you may need to buy their incense to make it work. Personally, I am perfectly happy with basic incense and a cheap burner, but if you want to splurge a bit have at it. 
    • By the way, the book they show as an example, The Hermetic Museum: Alchemy and Mysticism, I just finished reading it, and yea, for your pagan man, he might appreciate it if he is a reader or just likes nice books. I hope to post a review for it soon. The book is published by Taschen, and they always put out very nice books. 
    • They also suggest a Tarot deck. Personally, I would say unless you know the person, this may not be the best option because, in my humble opinion, each cartomancer knows their own preferences and aesthetic. Just give me some cash or a gift card so I can get my own decks. Having said that, if this will be their first deck, just be mindful in your choices. 
    • I liked the idea of making or giving a handmade wand. I may need to do that for myself, find a good stick to make a wand. 
    • Naturally, there is at least one LEGO set, and this time they suggest the Hocus Pocus model featuring the Sanderson Sisters house so you can build it together (wink wink).
  • Colette Baron Reid has her list of favorite things for the holidays. List combines a bit of self promotion, say for her decks, and some more personal ideas like writing  a handwritten notes. 
  • Theresa Reed, the Tarot Lady, offers her "2025 Tarot, Astrology, and Mystical Holiday Shopping Guide." She does put some thought and offers some good variety of items and services of interest to the witchy and other magical folk. From the list of books she suggests, I am currently reading Ethony Dawn's Become an Exceptional Tarot Reader, and so far I can say the book is great. I will have a review here on the blog soon. 

 

 I end this post with the adult section. If that is not your thing, you can stop reading here, and I thank you for stopping by. If you are cool with, keep reading. 

Adult and/or sexy gift ideas 


 

 

  •  Back in September, Tenga was taking pre-orders on their advent calendars. Story via AVN.The calendar features "25 unique surprise Tenga Egg strokers to discover throughout the holiday season." This sounds like one of those fun items that the Better Half and I should get one of these years for some fun quality time. At about $120, we'd need to save a bit of money for it. Oh well, maybe next year. If you want to get it, here is the link to their store.
  • Girl on the Net has her list of Christmas gifts with sexy suggestions

 


 

 


Wednesday, November 26, 2025

Thanksgiving Post 2025

Greetings and welcome to my 2025 Thanksgiving holiday post. In the recent years, our daughter spends the day doing Friendsgiving with friends. This year we got invited, and the Better Half and me decided to go, so we'll be celebrating with friends on Thursday. The Better Half will make one of her apple salads and bake a couple of pies, and I will bring the coquito. Making coquito and sharing it with others is one of those small holiday traditions I enjoy. This year, I work half a day on the Wednesday, then I am off from Thursday to Saturday; I return to regular work hours on Sunday. My other family members will work throughout the weekend after Thursday. 
 
While we are out for the holiday, here is some trivia and other small items of interest related to the holiday that I think my four readers may find amusing or interesting. Last year was a rough year, and to be honest, 2025 has not been that much better; it included one funeral. I am not holding high hopes for 2026 either, but we can worry about the next year later. 
 
If you celebrate the holiday, I hope it is a safe and happy time. If it is just Thursday for you, I hope it is a safe and happy Thursday. If you have to work the day, I hope the day is a calm one, and I hope you can find an alternate time to celebrate if you wish.  

 

 

 

 

 

Some holiday trivia

A vintage art piece featuring a live turkey, US flag, and a pumpkin

 

 

  • As I mentioned, we will be celebrating Friendsgiving with some friends. If you are curious about the word and/or the tradition, NPR has an overview of the tradition's history and etiquette
  • YouGov has their 2025 Thanksgiving survey asking what Americans will cook, eat, and debate for the holiday. A lot of the numbers they found are interesting, though I personally do not care much for the political trivia. One nice detail of us going to Friendsgiving with friends is that I know it will be a politics free environment. Keeping politics out of the day is a big reason why I tend to prefer staying home for the holiday, but I am keeping faith this outing will be peaceful. 
  • The Thanksgiving holiday period is a big time for travel, especially the day before and of course people returning after the weekend. This for us is the first time we've traveled for the holiday in years, but at least we are just driving a short distance, about 45 minutes or so to the big city, i.e. Lexington, KY. Dinner starts in early afternoon, so by then the traffic should be bearable. If you are traveling, The Onion does a bit of humor with their Thanksgiving travel numbers.  

 

The Thanksgiving economy 

Cost of the 2025 Thanksgiving dinner graphic (see link below)

 

 By now I am sure you are aware of the press coverage regarding the cost of the meal, that it seems to be higher or lower, depending on who you ask, etc. I am not going to rehash that. I am sure you all know how to check news sites for those stories. Still, I do find some of the economic trivia bits to be of interest, and I hope you'll find these stories interesting too. 

  •  Farm Bureau does an annual cost of the Thanksgiving dinner analysis, and they did again for 2025. The graphic above comes from their article. They concluded the cost, based on the basket they measure, declined a bit for this year. Their survey also looks at regional costs, say the South versus the West. 

 

 

Some holidays advice 

A little red bird wearing scarf and beanie saying: "If you are going home to an unsupportive family this holiday season, remember that your worth is not define by what they say or how they treat you.

 

 The holidays, Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc. can be a complicated and/or difficult time for some folks. And given the current Hard Times we are in, those complications and/or difficulties can get worse. So to help some folks out, here are some articles with advice for the Thanksgiving holiday. If you must be with difficult folks, I hope some of these resources help you. My best advice is don't do it. Don't put up with anyone who grinds your gears. However, I understand some out there may not have the choice I have, and again, I hope some of this information helps. 

  • The Verge has an article on how to survive Thanksgiving ranging from the food to dealing with stress and who to avoid if necessary.  
  • Salon offers an article answering some of the big Thanksgiving questions such as your first time hosting the meal,  drinks to serve, and how to deal with that one overeager kitchen "helper" you'd rather be out of the kitchen. 
  • On a different track, not many folks remember the pets that may be in a home at the time. Via Family Friends Veterinary Hospital, here are some Thanksgiving pet safety tips, things like what to feed them and what to definitely not feed them from the holiday table.  

 

 

The food 

A photo of Thanksgiving food including a sliced turkey in center and some sides 

 

Generally, when we celebrate at home, we always do non-traditional food. One year it's Mexican food, the other can be Italian or Puerto Rican food. It depends on what we feel like doing that year, and to be honest, probably one of the best decisions we ever made in our home. This year, I understand our host is doing some traditional fare, but with some spins of their own. Should be interesting. Anyhow, I know that most Americans do the traditional fare of turkey and sides. So here are some articles about the food and some advice on how to cook it if you need a little help.  

  • Want some wine with your turkey? Drinkhacker suggests zinfandel this year.  
  • Do you prefer non-alcoholic drinks with your meal? Vice offers some modest suggestions.  One of them is the Canada Dry Cranberry Ginger Ale, one of the various soft drinks featuring cranberry flavor you can often find this time of year. The Better Half is a bit partial to the Cranberry Sprite, or whatever lemon-lime soda with cranberry is available that year; we are not brand loyal in terms of cranberry soda. Personally, I cut soda out of my diet years ago, but I may sneak in a sip of the cranberry stuff during the holiday. 
  • Do you have the honor and sacred duty to carve the turkey, but don't know how? Country Living has an article with written instructions and a short video showing you how to carve the turkey. Back in the olden days when we went to our in-laws for the holiday, it fell to my father in law to carve the bird. 
  • Don't know how to cook the turkey at all? Not a problem. The folks at Butterball have various resources on their website including access to virtual "how to cook a turkey" support.  You can click on the "How to" link to find resources. They also list a phone number for calling them or texting them, and even online chat. So have no fear. 
    • The folks at Butterball also put together a "Togetherness Report" (warning: PDF) where they survey people to ask how they are spending the holiday. The document is 6 pages, so an easy read.  
  • Finally, if you decide to say fuck it, or you just don't want to cook, or whatever the reason, Mental Floss offers the list of restaurants that are open during Thanksgiving. It is strongly suggested you call your local ones to make sure they open. For example, the article says Burger King will be open, but I happen to know ours here in town is closed.  So double check to be sure. On a side note, when I was still in college and before I got married, I had a brief stint as a banquet waiter, and the hotel where I worked did offer a Thanksgiving day buffet. We did get quite a bit of traffic, and often people did dress up nicely for the moment. For me, the tips made it worth it. The Better Half and I have often considered the idea one of these years of doing the eating at a restaurant for the holiday thing. So far, it is mostly just an idea, but there is still time we hope. 

If you read this far, thank you for reading and stopping by. I wish you all a safe and happy holiday and/or week days. Feel free to comment down below about your plans for Thanksgiving, any traditions you maintain or that perhaps you dropped, any new traditions you adopted, so on.  

 



Sunday, June 22, 2025

Some random thoughts on how I get my news

This piece is prompted by two things. One, this report from PEW Research on "how Americans get local political news" and two having read the book Avoiding the News (link to my review). The book is based on a series of interviews the authors did with people who both enjoy following the news as well as people who avoid the news completely. In one of the appendices the book includes the interview questions they used. I decided to use some of the questions to help me reflect on my own news engagement and how I was socialized into reading news and keeping up with news and current events. As the title of this blog post states, these are some random thoughts. Questions from the book are as provided. The replies are my own. 

"What do you see as the most important issues in your life day to day?"

Pretty much making it to the end of another day and hoping Trump and his administration do not make things worse but knowing he will. While I am not in as bad a situation as other people out there, I certainly am vulnerable and there but for the amusement of the Cosmic Joker go you and me. It is not just one thing. It is really the overall sense of dread wondering what will happen next in the current clusterfuck. I am also concerned about things like inflation, price gouging, so a bit anxious not to spend money on non-essentials. Better to save that money just in case. 

"How about in your community? What kind of things are your neighbors worried about? What about your coworkers? What about friends /family?

I have no idea what the neighbors worry about, but given that they are all pretty much Trump and GOP people they probably do not worry much, including the one neighbor with the cutesy sticker on her SUV of "God, Guns, and Trump." I am sure she is feeling fine as long as someone else is getting the shaft. I could not care less what the neighbors worry about or not.  

These days what remains of my family, outside my immediate family at home, does not talk about politics much if ever, and I am good with that. 

At work, my coworkers in varying degrees worry about current events and the regime, but once the first few days of the 2024 elections in the U.S. passed on, they sort of quieted down and settled in.  

"Do you feel like you have all the information  you need to know enough about what's happening in your community? Where do you turn to for information about what's happening in your community?

I feel that there is enough in terms of local information. Not a lot, but what there is suffices. Locally, the Berea Citizen weekly is pretty much the main source. It is not that great, but it is what is available. I try to give it a quick read when I can though not as often as I used to do when I moved into town. Some city agencies here use Facebook of all things to make announcements, etc.. I've mostly stopped using Facebook, due to various reasons up to and including their horrible ethics, but I find I do not really miss it. If I need to find some local information, I know where to look and who to ask. I know one or two local people who are connected to the local networks I can ask if needed. 

"Do you feel like you have all the information you need to know enough about what's happening in the United States [and the world]?"  

In terms of overall news, I have a variety of news sources lined up on my RSS reader. I scan through the sources once a day during the work week. On weekends, I mostly disengage from formal news reading, although as we all know by now some news always makes it to your social media, and my social media, mainly Bluesky and Mastodon these days, is no exception to that rule. In addition, I am an academic librarian, if I need to find additional information sources, I either know the sources already or know where to find them or who to ask. 

"Would you say it is important to stay informed about the news?"

For me, yes, it is important to stay informed and at least have a sense of what is going on. A big issue in the United States is the large amount of uninformed citizens who vote. We'd probably not have as many problems as we do now if people actually bothered to read news, be informed, and also evaluate the news they get. If all you do is watch Fox News, you have no advantage over someone who just does not read nor watch news at all. If anything, the uninformed person may have a slight advantage over the Fox News viewer. I know staying informed is not easy, but if you are going to be a responsible and decent citizen you need to make the effort. 

Being informed is also important to be able to navigate the world we live in. For me, as a librarian, being informed helps me do my job better, which enables to help others get the information they need better.  

"Growing up, did anyone in your family read the newspaper or follow the news?"

I remember at home growing up we had at least one newspaper, often two or three. My dad was the one who read the newspapers regularly, often at the end of the day when he got home. Mom, who was a stay at home mom, would read them during the day. At the time, in Puerto Rico, the main two newspapers were El Nuevo Dia, which still operates today, and El Mundo, long gone. There was also El Vocero, which still exists also though it seems to have changed over the years. At the time, El Vocero was basically the local crime sheet. It was known for taking the worst crimes, picking the most gruesome one on a given day, and splashing it on the front page with a headline written in red letters. Mom would often say on seeing it that the newspaper would be bleeding. They basically had "click bait" and "rage bait" before they was the thing it is now. Once in a while we might get an edition of El Vocero if a headline interested my parents. 

At the time, there was also an English language newspaper, The San Juan Star, which my dad began a subscription when we started learning English. He was likely hoping it would help us learn the language, and for me at least it worked since I did start reading it here and there. 

Finally, in terms of newspapers, there was Claridad, which still also operates.  Claridad was the socialist party pro-independence newspaper. Mom would buy it once in a while; she was independendista. However, my memory of reading Claridad comes from one of our neighbors at the time. We used to share carpooling to go back and forth to school. Dad would take us and a kid or two from the neighborhood in the morning, and often one of their parents brought their kid and us back home. One of those parents was also independentista, and he read Claridad regularly. He put a copy in my hand one day telling me that it was important, essential for me to read and be informed, and to read it all, not just what the major mainstream news published. When Claridad was at home, I'd do my best to read it too. 

While I was not a huge news reader, I read enough to know what was going on. I particularly liked science stories. This was the time when Voyager spacecraft were making new discoveries in the Solar System and NASA's Space Shuttle was the new wonder of the time. I found those stories fascinating, and I even would clip a few of them, especially the photos. 

These days, I still read, or at least glance at news sources from back home. El Nuevo Dia and Claridad have RSS feeds, so I have them on my feed reader.  I usually check the headlines of the former, may read an article if it interests me, but I do read from Claridad more often. There is also a new to me newspaper, La Perla, that also has an RSS feed, so I read that one too. When it comes to news from Puerto Rico, I read just enough to have a sense of what is going on. I have not lived in the island for many years now, and my return looks unlikely, so I don't feel a need to have a depth of knowledge. However, if I needed that depth, I can likely catch up with ease. 

As for other news sources, dad often kept the radio in the car on the news station. Keep in mind this was before AM radio became the right wing talk wasteland it is now. The radio news station mostly provided headlines and a bit of information on the headline every hour on the hour, which could get a bit repetitive. On Sundays, the station did have a political talk program-- the program featured local political pundits, but they did make an effort to somewhat balance the politics unlike today-- that dad also listened to, at least until mom got tired of it and told him to change the station.  As for television, you got news during the week in the morning, around 10am if I recall, then 6pm and 10pm for the late viewers. If you did not catch one of the broadcasts you missed it that day. Things like VCRs did not come until a bit later, so you had to make the effort to watch the news if you wanted  to do so. However, if you missed the news broadcast, you did have the option of reading the newspaper the next morning. 

Even though news sources were accessible at home, to be honest, my parents and family did not talk about news very much at home or with other family when we went to visit or they came to visit our home. Part of it I think was the old rule of "things not spoken in polite company," which tend to be politics and religion, news often gets included in that. 

Anyhow, that is how, in a nutshell, I got socialized to reading news and keeping up with news. 

"Was news ever talked about when you were in school?" 

To be honest, not really. I remember there were some school programs to provided newspapers in schools for students to read, but I never was in a school that offered it. Teachers just stuck to whatever the curriculum was at the time. High school seniors had to take a year of Puerto Rico history, and no, nothing current was really taught nor discussed. Given that pro-independence sentiment is on the rise on the island now, I wonder if that has changed any in schools, but at the time, no, not really. And my peers pretty much could not have cared less about news or talking about news. Someone like me who read a lot, news and books, was seen as the nerd type, so I did my reading on my own, and talked about whatever else it was kids talked about in school at the time. 

"Have you ever felt the need to take a break from the news? Deliberately changed your media habits?" 

After the 2016 U.S. elections, given the results, I felt a need to take a break. I declared a self-moratorium on reading anything related to politics, social issues, and activist topics. Before that, I used to read news, and other things, in those topics regularly to stay informed as well as keep learning. Also, I did it to stay informed in order to be a good reference and instruction librarian. After the 2016 elections, I just got burned out. While I did not totally tune out those topics, I made a conscious effort to minimize my exposure. I read and skimmed just enough but I did not share any of what I was reading as I usually do on social media. In fact, I had a small penance where if something I read in those topics moved me enough to share it on social media, I would post pictures of kittens right after to cleanse the social media feeds. It was a bit of light humor in the Hard Times. 

For the most part I managed to keep the moratorium going fairly well. However, with the results of the 2024 U.S. elections, I have found myself drawn into the politics, social issues, and activist materials news cycle, so I have been gradually phasing out the moratorium. One, there is way too much stuff, most of it bad, that I DO need to know about so I can stay alive in the Hard Times. Two, again, in order to help patrons I feel the need to be informed so I can answer their questions. And three, completely tuning out is not a viable option, not if you are going to try to survive and help others do the same as well. So I am reading more news in those topics, and more importantly, reading books on such topics again, which I then write reviews on this blog. For me, reading and reviewing those books is a small way to provide reader's advisory, to inform others, and hopefully help others be educated and informed so they can do the work. It's my small form of doing the work. 

"Do you TALK or SHARE a lot of news with others?"

In person, not much. Online, yes, I do share a bit of what I read through my social media. Sometimes it is serious. Other times I just share the news item with a bit of humor and/or snark.  While I appreciate if others respond to it, politely, I do it mostly for myself to remember and/or entertain myself a little in the Hard Times. For the most part, people on my social media feeds react positively. Part of it I am sure is I have my social media fairly well curated, including blocking as needed, so the explainers, pedants, hardcore partisans, and other assorted fuckbagels get little to no chance of coming in my feeds to bother me and others who may follow me. For anyone who wants to say some bullshit along the lines of needing an open mind or listen to others, I say fuck you. I do not owe anyone my time and my space, and I sure as hell do not owe anyone a "debate." You can take yourself elsewhere with that crap. 

Sometimes folks do ask me for information, and I am happy to help out where I can. However, one thing I stopped doing long ago was any form of fact checking in social media. Given people online really are not interested in facts, I found it is not worth the effort trying to provide those people with accurate information if they do not want it. Some folks are just beyond any redemption, and I am not bothering with them. 

 

And there you have it, some random thoughts on how I get my news. I ended up writing a bit more than I planned, but I needed to write it out. How about folks out there? Feel free to share how you get news, your experiences, so on in the comments below. If you have a blog, and you write a longer piece, you can share the link in the comments. I will do my best to check it out when I can. If you read this far, thank you for stopping by.